Interpersonal relationships
Recently, I've been thinking about different relationships and what they ACTUALLY involve. The aspect of relationships currently peaking my interest is how important it is to develop humility. Being humble enough to have conversations about things that you do that offend or irritate your friend, partner, sibling parent etc. feels like a humiliation ritual. It's especially difficult when it's a deep character flaw in yourself. It feels like you now have a long term personal assignment ahead of you to work on.
Because emotional intelligence can be entirely new to some, the effort you'd then have to put in to work on yourself emotionally once you're in a romantic relationship sometimes leaves people drained. I feel like this is a factor in why a lot of guys stop doing certain things when they get married. Of course once you are married it would be inconsiderate to go out with just your friends excessively or go out whenever you want without informing them. However, it's very common to see people stop associating with their friends like they used to and stop the good habits that they had before getting married such as regular exercise and socialising with friends. Another possible reason for this is that you feel you no longer need to impress your partner which is another topic entirely.
On a completely different note, IAMMUSIC was really good. I know I haven't posted any songs but that's mainly to avoid being a stumbling block to certain ones.
My Top 5 right now >> 1. Olympian - this song gets me pretty emotional. It feels like finishing a videogame. That's the only way to describe it.
2. Toxic - Just wow. I don't even listen to Skepta but he cooked and Carti's verse is very satisfying. The flow is soo smooth.
3. Rather Lie - Everytime Carti and The Weekend make a song it just goes so crazy. They go together.
4. Cocaine Nose - I think i just like this song because it has the Ashanti only u intro sample
5. Evil Jordan - I've beeen waiting for this to drop. I don't mind the tiktok edit intro and it hits insanely different in the car.
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